Sort of detected that. My wife and I talk about this black guy she used to work with that she admits she had a thing for and is interested in sleeping with him. There are times where she gets quiet and others where she can't stop talking about him.
whenever my wife confesses to fucking other men or women its always during sex, she usually waits till i am licking her pussy and then starts telling me that another man has fucked her, this drives me wild with desire for her and the sex we have is amazing
My wife doesn't have to confess to cheating I get to watch her fucking real men. There's nothing hotter than watching her as she tells me how much better he fucks her and that I never could satisfy her like her lover's can cause I'm a limp dick faggot